INTRODUCTION TO PRONOUNS
By Crystal Rose, Human Resources
It has been an initiative at the Court to move towards a more diverse and inclusive culture. The Court’s Diversity & Inclusion mission statement is as follows: “We appreciate our common connection and respect our diverse and unique human experiences. We move forward as an inclusive organization as we provide accessible and equal justice.” The introduction of using pronouns is one step towards achievement of this mission. A person’s pronoun relates to their gender identity. According to the GLSEN education organization, pronoun is defined as, “The pronoun or set of pronouns that a person identifies with and would like to be called when their proper name is not being used.”
The focus on pronouns is geared towards respecting others by identifying yourself, and to know how to identify and address others. The objective is to create a more welcoming and inclusive space for people of all genders, including but not limited to transgender, gender nonconforming, gender non-binary people, and people uncomfortable identifying with "he" or "she". Ultimately, you don't want to make incorrect or hurtful assumptions about someone's gender based on their appearance. Just because someone appears feminine or masculine doesn't mean they identify as a man or woman. This article is an introduction to the use of pronouns to help us become familiar with the practice of pronoun-sharing.
Common Pronouns
Some commonly used pronouns are “she/her/hers,” “he/him/his,” ze/hir/hirs,” and
“they/them/theirs.” Some people prefer no pronouns at all.
There are more traditional gender neutral pronouns you can introduce into your everyday conversation, regardless of the individual. These include "Them", "They", "Their", "Everyone", and "That Person".
Introducing Pronouns
An easy way to bring pronouns into the discussion is to start with yourself. If you’re introducing yourself, include your pronouns. By sharing your own pronouns, you're inviting the other person to share theirs, but not forcing them to. When you first meet someone, you don't want to ask about their pronouns. This could come off as invasive or make them feel uncomfortable, or like you are asking them to out themselves. You can also include pronouns on email signatures, or nametags.
What if I don’t want to share my pronouns?
It is ok if you do not want to share your pronoun. Providing space and opportunity for people to share their pronouns does not mean that everyone will feel comfortable enough to share their pronouns or has to share. In the case that someone has left pronouns off the nametag, email signature or chosen not to share their pronouns, please refrain from using pronouns for that person and refer to the person by Name.
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